True Love

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True love should never be hard, it is the selfishness in ourselves that make it seem like work. Yes, relationships take effort, but real love itself if simply a gift you give with no expectations, no limits, no conditions. It is not based on a person's actions, what they can or have done for you, nor who you are when you are with them. So love freely, beautifully, without abandon.

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